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12
weeks of guided examen
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Part II — Your North Star
Ninety days from today, you are someone who no longer braces on waking. You rise before the house does, not out of discipline but out of appetite — because the first half hour finally belongs to you. The tiredness you named is still there some mornings. What is gone is the shame about it.
Part IV — Daily Rule of Life
6:30 — Silence. Ten minutes, no phone. One line of scripture or poetry, read twice.
12:45 — The walk. Twenty minutes outside, alone. Ask: what am I avoiding this afternoon?
21:30 — Examen. Two questions: where was I most alive today, and where did I hold my breath?
Part V — Weekly Examen, Week 3
“Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief.”
This week's theme is honesty without punishment. Three questions to sit with, and one micro-practice: write the sentence you have been avoiding saying to your father. Do not send it yet.
A guide to starting over
A spiritual reset, honest self-reflection, and life change that lasts.
Most of us don't need a new life. We need to come back to the one we have — with clearer eyes, a quieter heart, and a few practices strong enough to hold. Life Architect is built for that kind of return.
What is a spiritual reset?
A spiritual reset is a deliberate pause. You stop long enough to look honestly at how you are living, remember what matters most, and choose a small number of practices that bring you back to it. It is not an escape from your life, and it is not a self-improvement sprint. It is a turning — from noise toward attention, from drift toward intention.
Life Architect turns that pause into something you can hold: a written, 90-day plan rooted in prayer, scripture and poetry, and the ordinary rhythms of your days. The questions leave room for God, or the Sacred, in your own words.
How to do a spiritual reset in 90 days
Reflect before you plan. Answer ten questions about your spirit, your relationships, your work, and your habits. Short answers are enough.
Name your North Star. Describe the person you hope to be in ninety days, in the present tense.
Ground, build, send. Days 1–30 steady you. Days 31–60 build new rhythms. Days 61–90 turn outward toward the people and work you're called to.
Keep a daily rule of life. A simple morning, midday and evening rhythm — with a safeguard against the habit that steals your peace.
Review every week. Twelve weeks of guided examen help you notice what is changing and adjust gently.
Self-reflection questions that go beneath the surface
Many self-reflection questions stop at “What are your goals?” These ask what is underneath the goals. A few of the ten you'll answer:
What does your soul long for in this season of your life?
Which relationships feel strained, draining, or unresolved?
If money and approval were no object, what work would you devote your days to?
What daily habits are stealing your peace, focus, or joy?
Ninety days from today, who do you hope to have become?
Your answers are saved as you type, so you can stop and come back.
How to change your life without starting from scratch
Big resolutions usually fade because they ask for a different person overnight. Real life change tends to come from a few small, repeated choices made in the right direction. Ninety days is long enough to build new habits and short enough to keep the finish line in sight.
That is why your plan is specific: the hard conversation to schedule, the apology or thank-you to send, the boundary to hold, the twenty minutes to protect each morning.
Who it's for
People of faith and spiritual seekers at a turning point — after a move, a loss, a job change, a stretch of burnout, or at the start of a new year or season. If you've been sensing that something needs to change but couldn't name it yet, the ten questions are a good place to start.
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Why this exists
“I built Life Architect because every planning tool I tried treated my life like a backlog. None of them asked what my soul was hungry for. Ten questions, answered honestly, turn out to be enough for something far more useful than a to-do list.”